Tuesday, July 30, 2013

July 30. 2013

Tuesday-Dr. Wexler called this afternoon and said they want more imaging.  They usually do not do this at this stage but they need to see if the chemo is working.  They will do an extensive MRI of the colon and a PET scan of the body to see how the metastases are responding, if at all. If they are, then we will have one discussion which will include the surgery to remove the colon tumor and re-sect it and then the ileostomy bag for 9-10 months.  If it is not responding, then we have another discussion.  It is very stressful here.  Once again, I am the punching bag.  He now thinks he can go in alone tomorrow and has asked Uncle Jim to meet him there.  I am going regardless and he tells me if I go, then I cannot hear any results.  The doctor has asked me to attend.  It is really tough right now.  I am reaching out to his old doctors and the psychiatrist for help and guidance and support.  I know I need help too and will work on that once the plan is made out.  I am trying to be positive and doing everything I can but it is hard when you keep hearing bad news.  Pray for good results tomorrow.

2 comments:

  1. i am praying good news is on the horizon and wish there was more to say. this is very tough stuff...i wish i could be there just to hold your hand....
    you & cody are in our thoughts as well as our hearts

    gary

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  2. Mary,

    It must be so hard for Cody now, as it is for you. Of course you will be there and I am sure the doctors will help Cody understand why you both must be present. I hold you both on my heart and will continue to send good vibrations and healing thoughts to Cody. You are tough and you are filled with love and supported by those who love you both.

    Xoxoxo,
    Diane

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