Saturday, November 14, 2009

day 163 November 14, 2009

Saturday-The best part of today was doing a video chat with Casey. We got to see him but did not get to hear his voice. We typed instead. It was so good to see him and of course, it left me in tears. I miss him.
Cody had a pretty good day. He is making small strides but things are going well. He is eating more frequently but small portions. He is adjusting to life and trying to figure out where he is headed. I am letting him do more things, like he went into Sam Ash to get drumsticks and I waited in the car. We were at the mall and I let him go off in a store and I waited for him. We have a close connection, very close. I know he is worried about me becoming involved with someone and leaving him or treating him like his dad does. He says that is not the case but I think it might be. We talk a lot so I have to make sure he understands that I am here, for always. He is a smart boy and I know he is concerned about a lot of things out of his control. The things he can control is what he kinda obsesses on. We have a long way to go in some areas.
We watched the Islanders tonight. He said he can't believe the hockey mom he has made me. I was a hockey mom a long time ago when Casey played. Some of the Islanders could be young enough to be my son.
It is a very gloomy, rainy, yucky day. Casey brought us a huge ray of sunshine today. We smiled a huge one for him. Love you Casey, please be safe.

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